Narcissists Will Always Blame You

Narcissists Will Always Blame You

If you’ve ever been in a relationship with someone who has narcissistic tendencies, or worse full blown narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), one scenario you’ll definitely recognize is being blamed for everything that ever goes wrong.   It’s always your fault....
The Bittersweet Mother’s Day

The Bittersweet Mother’s Day

There was no breakfast in bed for me this morning.  No flowers, no fuss, no secret wrapping or whispered instructions.  And then my little man announced "oh by the way mum, I forgot to tell you about the Mother's day stall at school on Friday."  I won't lie, my heart...
Are We Really Ok?

Are We Really Ok?

Are you ok?  Maybe, but life's hard, isn't it.  And right now you're just barely holding it together. There's just no dressing it up with spiritual glamour. This assignment, being human, it's tough. And pretending that its easy when we all know it's not, doesn't help...
So You Made It Out Of The Frying Pan

So You Made It Out Of The Frying Pan

So you made it out of the frying pan.  It was pretty nasty in there wasn't it?!  You copped a few burns and it wasn't an easy place to eject yourself out of either. They never are.   Maybe your ex was a narc.  Gawd I feel for you, that kinda energy sucks you dry and...