But You Can Do Better, Can’t You?

But You Can Do Better, Can’t You?

It's a common belief, you might think it's yours (it's not, it's likely your mums) or hey, you mightn't even be aware that it lurks  down in the depths of your subconscious mind.   But it does. And it drives your fear and impatience. And your frustration.   And your...
What A 7 Year Old Can Teach About Arguing

What A 7 Year Old Can Teach About Arguing

I fell out with my son the other day, well, more he fell out with me. We don't argue a lot, he's a pretty chilled little guy, but we're human and sh*t happens. Kids have an uncanny knack of knowing when emotional energy needs to be released. Until, that is, we teach...
When You’re Not Prepared For Change

When You’re Not Prepared For Change

Change and challenge ... you can't stop them               You can't control them, and even when you invite them you just can't know what's in store, how long it will last, or how hard or easy - hey sometimes it's easier than you imagine! - it's going to be.      ...